Major in the Majors and Minor in the Minors

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We have arrived at the traditional time of year where everyone desperately seeks leanness. And so, many a diet are put to the test. Some of them work for a time, they eventually fail. This leaves the January dieter feeling inadequate and guilt ridden.

Are some rules more important than thers when it comes to maintaining leanness?

In a word, yes.

What if…… you could sort out the successful habits from the less significant minor rules?

This is where ‘majoring in the majors, and minoring in the minors’ comes in.

The major rules: make these a habits a non-negotiable for life:

1. Eat Protein: 1g per pound of ideal body weight.
2. Commit to two servings of Veggies minimum, mid day, every day. Have five or more servings every day.
3. Resistance Train: consistently every week.  Learn to do it safely and effectively.
4. HIIT: (High Intensity Interval Cardio) over steady state cardio twice per week. High intensity means 90% effort or better for 20 seconds, followed by a significant rest period (80 to 100 seconds) to allow adequate recovery to perform at 90% or more effort every interval.
5. Portion control: Eat in a slight calorie deficit if you are trying to lean out. Calorie deficit means 85-90% of baseline. Any less and muscle will be lost leading to a decrease in metabolic rate. If you don’t know your baseline calories, a decent estimate is Body Weight x 12 for moderately active people. If you are not active use 11.

Minor rules:
1. Drink H2O: aim for Gallon per day
2. Carbs and Protein: Eat an easily digested (low in fat) meal before and after workouts. The energy in your system will make your total calorie burn significantly greater than training on empty.
3. Fiber 25-35g/day

No matter what your approach is, (low carb, paleo, Keto, low fat, gluten free, macro plans etc.) these habits can be applied to any diet plan, because they have been proven to spare lean mass while shedding fat.

They key is to be consistent and patient and give it time. This is not a fad diet, it is a lifestyle approach. Statistics prove that rapid weight loss leads to rebound weight gain. 

If you are unsure of how to progress, inquire with me about Health Coaching. As a Mom who raised four children while maintaining exceptional health and fitness, I am giving back and sharing my real life tested strategies. I avoided the 10 pound weight gain per decade, and am proud to say I am more fit in my 50’s than I was in my 20’s.

Make 2017 the year wher you stopped dieting.

Is Keeping a Food Diary Right for You?

Is logging food right for you? Traditionally New Years begins the season of, fitting back into your skinny jeans. Statistics show that most people abandon their New Years diets before Valentines Day. 

And so bring I bring up this question:
              Is keeping a food diary right for you?

This is more of a personal question than an argument for or against keeping a food diary. 
Why do diets fail? A plan that works long term, has two requirements. A successful life lasting diet must be one that A)Has an accountability plan in place and B) Can work with your lifestyle. Diets that fail, fall short of reaching these require long term.
If keeping a food diary will satisfy those factors. Then you have your answer. To help make your decision, let’s look at the pros and cons of keeping a food diary.
The cons
Weighing and measuring all food.

Figuring out amounts of each ingredient in a recipe.

Not being the committed to weighing your food. 

Not being patient enough to stick with the plan.

Not having a system for recording your food.

Not knowing the amount of food in restaurant meals

The pros:
Immediate awareness of what you eat

Accountability – owning your choices

Planning simple meals 

Minimizing impulse eating

Share your diary for added support

Becomes easier as you get familiar with your foods.

Use of mobile apps allows your diary to be at arm’s reach 

In 1999 I went on a popular diet and began keeping a food diary. The diet ultimately didn’t fit my life style, but the biggest take away I got from that experience, was that keeping a food diary worked in my favor. For the vast majority of the last 17 years I have kept a food diary, because it has helped me maintain my nutrition plan. Somewhere around 2008, I switched from paper and pencil to a mobile app, making it even easier to log my food. It is now second nature for me to record my food, and stay within my parameters. The only time I do not log my food is when I eat out, and on Christmas, and even then I intuitively. There are times where I want to splurge, and because I keep a food journal I can save some of my ‘food budget’ for that treat. This’s what I call ‘planned delayed gratification.’
 Keeping a food diary can work for any plan, because the built in accountability maintains portion control. All successful diets provide portion control. Most of them control intake by restricting one type of food or another, however the plan that fits your lifestyle, is the one that you will have success with long term. 

Celebrate Your Commitments

This is the hectic week before christmas, and the rush is on to create the ideal holiday setting. This week Ed and I also celebrate our wedding anniversary. 
In many ways. Life long fitness is analogous to a life long happy marriage.

To be successful, both require dedication and commitment. If you want each to last, you have to be present. You have to be committed. You have to put in major effort. If you want your marriage to last you have to own the responsibility of dating your spouse for life. If you want your fitness to last, you have to own your fitness habits. 
The holidays are no exception.  

Being married the week before Christmas, could be an excuse to blow off an anniversary celebration, in exchange for squeezing in more holiday preparations. Early on in our marriage, when we had two toddlers in diapers and sleepless nights, we got behind on laundry and gift wrapping. We spent that anniversary conquering mount-wash-more and wrapping gifts. We looked at each other and came to an agreement. Never again would we omit celebrating our wedding day to prepare for Christmas. From that point on, we learned to prepare ahead of time so that on 12/23 every year, we could relax with our family and celebrate our marriage. 
I treat my fitness lifestyle the same way. There are times when it would be easier to put off my fit habits, for example the weeks before Christmas. But I choose to own my fitness commitment. I chose to be consistent with my exercise and nutrition habits. Being consistent now, makes the transition to the new year less stressful. I don’t have to do resolutions for fitness, because I resolved years ago to be consistent.  
Like a marriage vow, be committed to your fitness. You will thank your self. 

And always remember to be grateful and kind.

Frantic Food Anxiety and Sesame Cookies

Frantic Food Frenzy

 Food can foster family and community. Food can be joyful. Food can make you feel good. But—food is not love… Food is food. 

Look on the web and you will find many methods to manage holiday temptations. But consider this, copying someone else’s diet is like trying to fit into your best friends jeans. They look great on her, but not so much on you.

We have all read countless tips, like ‘eat a big salad at home…yeah, right. That big salad with dry tuna does not get me in the party spirit, nor prevent me from wanting amazing party food. Instead, of focusing on what you shouldn’t do, try this instead. Take a moment to be grateful. Now, consider if you are stressed, and if you are using food to self sooth.

Embrace this: What you do the majority of the time, will impact your progress more than what you do once in a while. The most effective strategy then, is to be consistent, because being too restrictive will lead to a binge and being too indulgent will make you feel guilty.

If an over indulgence happens, just make peace with it and move on. The next day have some extra water with lemon. Then just eat normally. Falling into the trap of over indulgence followed by severe restricting is the opposite of consistency.

Look for your personal middle ground, the place where you can wear your clothes comfortably and yet not feel deprived. Make a conscious effort to stay there. Remember not to be too restrictive, too little is always followed by too much. Now, you still have to be somewhat restrictive, because to maintain your middle ground you get everything you need, and some of what you want.

“To maintain your consistency, your middle ground, you get everything you need, and some of what you want”

Please don’t obsess about all the little food rules. Pick your own rules, and be consistent. If you are looking for direction, check out my 4P Plan for suggestions.

Judy’s 4 P’s  

Protein:   Consume some protein  at every meal.  This should average out to the size of your palm in thickness and area.  About 4 palms worth a day.

Pump:     The hands down most effective way to keep your body burning calories like a wood fired pizza oven is to pump iron. (Like you know…heavier than your designer handbag)  The stimulus will keep your metabolism in burning mode.

Prime:    Prime yourself with water all day long, every day.  A well hydrated body digests and more efficiently.  At social events, try alternating water and cocktails.

Plan:       Have a plan in place where you allow yourself one treat per day.  It could be a special adult beverage or a little sweet that you covet.  Make it special, and savor it.   There is no reason to overdo it because you will have some more the next day if you want it. Decide when and where you want that treat, then have it and stop.  By having it you avoid the cycle of deprive-binge-deprive again-binge more.  That just leads to self-disgust.  Let’s face it; overindulging always makes us feel like shit the next day. Having a treat is the best of both worlds. Enjoy yet still have be in control.

Finally, find your joy in non food activities, and remember to always be grateful and kind.

Below is one of my mother’s old Christmas cookie recipes

Sesame Cookies (Family Recipe) 

Cream the following with a mixer:

  • 1/2 cup shortening or butter
  • 1 cup sugar
  • 2 eggs

Add in:

  • 2 tsp milk or cream
  • 1 tsp vanilla


  • 2 1/2 cups flour
  • 1/4 tsp baking soda
  • 1/2 tsp salt

Roll into finger width snakes and cut into 2 inch pieces. Dip in a milk bath and roll in sesame seeds. Bake on greased  cookie sheet at 350 degrees for 8-10 minutes.


Monday Mantra: Screw Perfection

Monday Mantra: Screw Perfection

The less you rely on external cues to determine your self worth, the better chance you have for creating your own healthy and productive world.

I asked many women what irks them the most about them selves. The overwhelming response was guilt and shame from falling short of what society dictates as perfect. Perfectionism is toxic to our self acceptance. Perfectionism requires us to measure up to some hypothetical standard.

Obviously we all know the perfect woman does not exist. Why then do we have angst for falling short of the current definitions of the perfect woman?

Here is a little secret:

We have angst when we don’t accept ourselves.
Let me say that again.
We have angst when we don’t accept ourselves.

Because when we use outside parameters as our measuring sticks we will always fall short. We do better when we measure our progress based on the girl we were yesterday.

The way I see it, self acceptance is a subjective assessment allowing imperfections, and unique characteristics to flourish.
When we accept our selves as we are, outside influences like the scale, and other outward labels, become irrelevant to our happiness.

Gaining self acceptance is a work in progress. It is not like flipping a switch and presto, self acceptance is achieved. Using affirmations can be helpful. Here are some affirmations that I embrace:

I am imperfect, and I am worthy.
I embrace my uniqueness.
I am disciplined.
I am strong.

Explore some affirmations to help with your
personal journey to self acceptance.

Feel free to leave your comments below, and always be grateful and kind to yourself.